Where do you start?  That's a good question.  First of all, read the following prayer written by St Francis.  If everyone lived by these words they would learn love and love yourself and wouldn't this world be a wonderful place to live.  This is truly inspirational and something everyone should keep in mind during their daily activities.

THE PRAYER OF ST. FRANCIS

Lord, make me a channel of thy peace,

That where there is hatred, I may bring love;

That where there is wrong,

I may bring the spirit of forgiveness;

That where there is discord, I may bring harmony;

That where there is error, I may bring truth;

That where there is doubt, I may bring hope;

That where there are shadows, I may bring light;

That where there is sadness, I may bring joy.

Lord, grant that I may seek rather to comfort than to be comforted;

To understand, than to be understood;

To love, than to be loved.

For it is by self-forgetting that one finds.

It is by forgiving that one is forgiven.

It is by dying that one awakens to Eternal Life.